As much as I believe that John Kerry's nutty wife Tuh-RAY-zuh is a Martha Mitchell waiting to happen, this whole "shove it" story is much ado about nothing.
Having watched the video, it just isn't that big a deal. She thought the reporter misquoted her, he is with a right-wing paper, and she gets a little annoyed with him.
It's not like she said to him what Dick Cheney said to Pat Leahy or anything. I wouldn't hit too hard on this if I were the Republicans. This wife stuff has a way of boomeranging.